We’ve all heard it.
And it sucks.
“I mean, come over if you want to.”
If I want to?!
Of course I want to!
I’m trying to decide if you want me to!
So tell me STRAIGHT UP PLEASE.
As girls, we often need a clear answer to validate our actions.
We always need someone to tell us we’re doing things right and not being annoying.
We need to STOP THIS IMMEDIATELY.
Chances are, if you’re texting a guy and he says “if you want to come over,” he wants you to come over.
It’s as simple as that.
He wouldn’t say it if he didn’t mean that.
It’s not a trick or a trap.
Guys and girls just speak different languages.
Guys don’t think when they type something up and we need approval from 2679 friends before composing a text.
So, let’s ditch the doubt and start making bold choices.
And when he says, “come over if you want to,” decide if you really want to and make that be the decision!
The ball is in your court!